Programs vs Relationships
There tends to be two different emphases when it comes to ministry styles. One is program-focused and the other is relationship-focused.
Now someone is likely to push back and say that this is a false dichotomy, that it is not an either/or but both/and. Leaders who emphasize programs also value relationships and leaders that emphasize relationships also value programs.
This of course is true. Most churches have elements of both and leaders often desire to have both.
But I would still say that church leaders naturally tend more toward one than the other. You probably know which one rings true to you.
There are people who look at a full church calendar with programs aimed at every distinct group and feel a sense of satisfaction. The church is being effective and the number of programs testify to that success.
Others are not necessarily anti-program but are not as eager for a full schedule. They want some flex time to be in the community and to have time to develop relationships. Programs are not measured by how many there are but how well they do at developing relationships.
Despite being a strong introvert, I am a relationship guy. I feel my best as a pastor not when I can recount the number of programs listed on our website but when I get a chance to have a conversation with someone on the street or in a store.
This is not meant to be critical of programs. Our church has programs and I am thankful for them. But my style definitely falls more into the relationship category.
What style of ministry do you have?
