Should Pastors/Chaplains Be Present at Medically Assisted Deaths?
I always hesitate to write posts that start with “Should.” It suggests a binary of either being required to always do it or never do it. I am firm believer in following your conscience and so I will not tell others what to do.
I could say “Can pastors/chaplains…” or even “Would I…” but this is how we normally have these conversations. Just be aware that I am not trying to tell others what to do.
One of the most controversial issues at the moment is medical assistance in dying. This can be when an ill person chooses to be euthanized or chooses to receive the means to die by suicide.
This post is not on the details of this topic. Nor is it about the question of whether mental illness should be included in this discussion.
In Canada and some other countries, people can currently request to receive medical assistance in dying. In some cases, they want their pastor or chaplain to be present for this. They want them to support them and to support their loved ones.
Can a Christian agree to be present for such an event?
I will begin by acknowledging that most evangelicals are against euthanasia and assisted suicide. So I am not asking if they should support it.
But if they are personally against it, how can they respond if an individual or family requests it?
I have spoken to colleagues about this. Many would refuse. Not because they are uncaring but because they feel it would compromise their convictions and could potentially send the message that they condone it.
I understand those feelings and I am sympathetic. But I would be present for a legal euthanasia or assisted suicide if invited. I would support those present and I would pray for all involved.
This is not because I agree with it (I don’t) but I believe that is the kind of incarnate ministry that I am called to. One that goes beyond what I am comfortable with.
But what about looking like you are condoning it?
When I read the Gospels, I see Jesus with those most in need and not demonstrating any concern that he was condoning sin. In fact he did such things even when religious leaders pointed out that it was “not appropriate” to be with certain people and being at certain places.
This does not mean that all pastors should agree with me. If you think it is wrong, you should not do it. I do not want to do it. It sounds like it would be extremely difficult. But I would also be willing to do it in the right circumstances.
