Thoughts and Prayers on Thoughts and Prayers
I have observed a lot of criticism recently towards those who offer “thoughts and prayers” after a natural disaster or act of violence. People have said such things for years but recently some have lost patience with what they deem to be an empty sentiment.
I would like to offer three thoughts on this.
First of all, this is not really a critique of religious people. I have many friends who are not religious at all but when something bad happens, they offer “positive energy.” I’m not exactly sure what “positive energy” is but I interpret it as a statement that they care deeply about what has happened. This is not a religious instinct, it is a human instinct. It is a statement of compassion.
Secondly, “thoughts and prayers” are not meaningless. As a Christian, I believe that prayer does something. But even if you don’t believe that, it still means something. A week ago, I was not feeling well and I mentioned it at my church during the service. Throughout the week, people in my congregation expressed their concern and care to us. I really felt the love. It made me feel good to know that people cared.
Finally, when people say “thoughts and prayers,” that does not mean that their support ends there. People of faith are often the first ones to be on the front lines helping in practical ways. USA Today recently had an article about the role of faith organizations in disaster relief.
It is easy to criticize people who offer “thoughts and prayers” but for the criticism, we should reflect on what we are doing to make the situation better.
For another perspective on this same topic, check out Thoughts, Prayers, and…? by Joseph Mulak.
